Have you ever been in a conversation with a lady and you just feel something isn’t just right?
And you feel you are just wasting your time trying to get to know a
lady? These are 7 signs that shows she might not be interested in you.
1) She complains that she’s tired
When we meet someone we might be interested in, our energy levels
tend to spike. We get a second wind that lifts us up and makes us
completely forget the fact that we’re tired, hungover, or in a bad mood.
And even if we’re feeling any of those things, we do our best to hide
it. If a woman continues to point out that she’s tired or in a bad mood,
it is probably just her way of hinting to you that she doesn’t want to
keep talking to you. Women who complain about anything have a way of
sucking the energy out of a conversation and should be avoided if
possible.
2) The Rule Of Thumb
Here is a rule of thumb, if a woman is interested in you at some
point she’ll ask you your name. Simple as that. Women are very conscious
of avoiding awkward situations, and if she is really interested in you
the last thing she wants is a potential situation later on where she has
to admit that she doesn’t even know your name. Because of this, if a
woman is hoping to talk to you for awhile, she’ll go out of her way to
find out your name. If it’s more than 10 minutes into a conversation and
you haven’t told a woman your name and she hasn’t asked, it’s a pretty
good sign that she is waiting for the conversation to end.
3) She brings up her boyfriend soon into the conversation
A lot of guys would think this is obvious. But it’s not. If a girl is
enjoying your company and likes you, she will avoid telling you she has
a boyfriend as long as humanly possible.In fact, if a girl waits until
you’ve asked for her number to tell you she has a boyfriend, it’s
probably because she liked you too much to admit she had a boyfriend
sooner. But if she starts talking about her boyfriend early into a
conversation, it’s her way of not-so-subtly letting you know that
nothing is going to happen between you. So stop wasting your time.
4)She tries not to make eye contact
What do you do when you’re walking down the street and you see a
beggar with his hand out looking for money? Well, if you don’t want to
give him any, you avoid eye contact at all costs. Eye contact acts as
encouragement for the other person to talk to you. It invites them in
and says “I’m interested…” So a woman who is deliberately avoiding eye
contact is doing everything in her power to prevent you from continuing
to talk to her. She is basically saying “I refuse to give you permission
to continue”
5) She has closed off body language
If a girl is enjoying her conversation with you she’ll tend to loosen
up. You’ll notice that she follows your lead and begin mirroring your
actions and energy level. However, if a girl continues to display closed
off body language even after you’ve begun to really open up to her,
there is a good chance that she just isn’t as invested in the
interaction as you are. Similar to avoiding eye contact, keeping your
body language closed off is another way of saying “I refuse to give you
permission to continue.”
6)She gives short one word answers
In the first couple of minutes of a conversation, before a woman has
had a chance to get warmed up, it’s acceptable for her to be giving you
short answers and not talking too much. But if it’s more than ten
minutes into a conversation and she is still just giving you short one
word answers to your questions and not prying you for more information
about yourself, she probably isn’t interested in you. If a woman wants
to continue the conversation she will keep talking to prevent you from
leaving. If she isn’t offering much to the conversation after ten
minutes, she probably isn’t worried about you leaving. Which is a good
sign you should leave.
7) She is giving her friend the “help me” eyes
Women have a way of communicating “help me” to their friends. Many of
them are actually pretty blatant about begging to be saved. Yet, I’m
amazed at how many guys miss these clues. If you’re talking to a woman
and her friends are around, pay attention to the subtle signals they are
giving each other. If they are rolling their eyes or giving the “help
me” eyes as demonstrated here, you should probably find a better
prospect.
These are seven of the biggest indicators of disinterest. Just
because you’re getting one of these does not confirm she is not
interested. But if you’re getting more than one of these, it is a pretty
good sign things are not going anywhere
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